As my first post, I want to write about the movie 27 DRESSES.... I loved this movie, but more than the movie itself, I really relate to Jane, in several things. For instance, how many times have we had a crush on someone, and we were unable to let them know, how many times have we suffered, seeing him with another girl, and wishing him the best... and inside our heart is a completely different story. It's curious that sometimes we prefer to shut out our feelings, just to see that person happy.
Well, she had a really hard time with Tess, but at the end it was because she hasn't been honest, Jane could've save a lot of time and energy if she could just tell Tess NO. And that's the problem in our journey to find ourselves, we end up trying to please everyone even though it makes us crazy. We push ourselves aside, and do what people want, in order to please them and make them them happy. But, what about us??? At the end you just keep pushing aside your feelings until you explode, and end up hurting the people close to you.
Because tell me how many times, do you swallow your feelings until you just can't take it anymore and explode. I've been there... and in the way to feel better you end up feeling worse, you hurt a lot of people, you have to learn to be true to yourself, and learn to say NO. It's incredible but that word can save us from making mistakes, and end up with broken hearts and regrets.
At the end, it just come down to finding yourself, and maintain true to who you are. Because instead of trying to make everyone happy, you end up trying to make yourself happy. I really love the ending, the part were she walks toward him, because in that moment, the only thing that matters is, that you finally find what you've looking for, and he's in front of you, waiting for you to say YES!
